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Wine First, Pair Later: A No-Nonsense Take on the Pairing Craze


 

Let’s set the record straight. There's a trend in the wine scene that many enthusiasts love to wax lyrical about—wine pairing. Pairing wine with food, pairing wine with weather, moods, cheese, poetry, a Wednesday afternoon... you name it. But for some of us, it all sounds a little too fussy. Here’s the thing: if the wine doesn’t taste good on its own, why are we pairing it with anything?

🍷 The Wine Has to Win Me Over First

Before anyone starts tossing around terms like “tannic structure” or “complementary umami,” I need to actually like the wine. Full stop. I won’t be impressed by a sommelier’s declaration that this Pinot pairs perfectly with duck confit if sipping it makes me feel like I’ve just licked a chalkboard.

Pairing shouldn’t be a cover-up. It shouldn’t be the PR strategy for a wine that can’t stand on its own two legs (or in this case, its glass stem). A good wine should command attention all by itself—no charcuterie board required.

🍽️ But Why Do People Obsess Over Pairing?

To be fair, pairing can elevate a meal when it’s done well. A crisp Sauvignon Blanc alongside a zesty goat cheese salad? A bold Syrah cutting through the richness of a braised lamb shank? Yes, that can be a match made in heaven. For some, it’s about enhancing flavor harmonies, creating balance, and enjoying a sensory adventure.



But let’s not confuse enhancement with salvation. A pairing is not a rescue mission for a wine that doesn’t deliver. If you have to eat truffle risotto just to tolerate that glass of Chardonnay, maybe the wine isn’t the hero of the story. Here are some pointers:

🍷 1. “Red wine with red meat, white wine with fish.”

This old-school rule is more of a guideline than gospel. A light red like Pinot Noir can pair beautifully with salmon, while a rich white like Chardonnay can stand up to pork or even veal. It’s more about texture, acidity, and seasoning than color.

🍰 2. “Sweet wines are only for dessert.”

Many people avoid sweet wines altogether, thinking they’re unsophisticated or only for pudding. But a well-chosen sweet wine like Riesling or Gewürztraminer can balance spicy dishes or salty cheeses in ways dry wines can’t.

🧀 3. “Pairing fixes a bad wine.”

This one hits close to your original point. No pairing can rescue a wine you don’t enjoy. A good pairing enhances a wine you already like—it doesn’t magically transform a mediocre one into something memorable.

🧂 4. “The main protein is all that matters.”

People often focus on the meat or fish, but the sauce, spices, and cooking method play a bigger role. A grilled chicken with lemon and herbs might pair better with a zesty white than a bold red.

🧊 5. “Serve red wine at room temperature.”

“Room temperature” used to mean 16–18°C, not today’s 22–25°C. Serving reds too warm can make them taste flabby or overly alcoholic. A slight chill can brighten the flavors and make the wine more enjoyable.

🏷️ 6. “Expensive wine means better pairing.”

Price doesn’t always equal quality. A well-made, affordable wine can pair just as beautifully—if not better—than a pricey bottle. Personal taste trumps price tag every time.

🎯 Wine Is Personal—So Should Be the Experience

The beauty of wine is that it’s as personal as your playlist or your travel bucket list. Some like it bold and spicy, others go for the clean and citrusy. So why let someone else dictate that your favorite Merlot must be reserved for roast chicken on Sundays?

It’s okay to flip the script. Choose the wine you want to drink, and if you happen to find a meal that plays along, great. If not? Pour a glass anyway. Sometimes the best pairing is simply you, your favorite wine, and a moment worth toasting.

🥂 Final Sip



So to all the wine world matchmakers: take your pairings and suggestions—we’ll consider them. But for many of us, it’s wine first, questions later. Because if that wine doesn’t taste like joy in a glass before the main course lands, we’re not pairing, we’re just pretending.

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